Do you have a list of clients that you see regularly that you have formed a special bond with? Would you feel 'cheated' if they saw another girl like how hairdressers get mad at you if you get your hair cut somewhere else?
I have clients I have been seeing for over 10 years. That is certainly a connection, but I am fully aware of the nature of it. Jealousy is not something I appreciate from either side.
How do you handle first-timers or those who have limited experience with escort services? What are your suggestions to such clients to make your encounter the most enjoyable?
First-timers are a specialty of mine. I really enjoy exploring new things with someone, broadening their horizons. The most important thing for a first-timer is to read a provider's website thoroughly, and then contact them via their preferred method. Of course you'll be nervous, but you'll also be excited.
If a client decided to make you a present, what would you be happy to receive? What is your wish-list (maybe flowers, lingerie, parfume, music albums, books etc.)?
I have a wishlist.
What makes you notable among other providers? What exactly, you believe, you're good at? What makes your service unique? What is your favorite kind of service?
I believe all providers have something unique and wonderful to offer. It's not up to me to point out differences, it is for you to decide who you might best get along with.
How do you prefer a client to make an appointment? What information is important for you? Is screening required before the appointment?
I am lucky enough to live in Australia, where people are able to be open and honest about what they're seeking. A short email with a brief introduction of who you are, how you found me and what you're hoping to experience with me are all I need to get started.
Do you ever get nervous before meeting a client? Is it kind of like preparing for a first date?
I enjoy the anticipation before meeting someone, whether it's for the first time or the tenth time.
What sort of personality qualities does someone need to possess to be a successful escort?
I think the most important qualities are kindness and empathy.
If someone wished to become an escort, how would you recommend they go about it?
I have a whole blog post about this - relevant for people in Australia only.
What are your dreams, future goals and aspirations? Short and long term?
I have already achieved many of my goals. I have been very lucky. I would like to buy more property and read more books.
What types of clients do you deny to meet? Are there any restrictions?
Manners are the most important thing, especially during an introductory email. The wrong approach will close my door forever. The right approach will change your world.
What is the strangest request you have ever had from a client?
I don't consider any request strange. Whether I offer a fantasy or not, it's all part of the rich tapestry of life.
Can you tell us a bit about your first escort job?
A lady never tells. Suffice to say, I knew I had found my calling.
What did you want to be when you were growing up?
I wanted to be a dominatrix, though I have no idea where I heard the term. I grew up in a sheltered environment.
Has being an escort changed your view of men?
No, they're all naughty boys inside ;)
How long have you been working as an escort?
Over 10 years. And I hope to continue in this industry until past retirement.
How did you get into the escort business?
I was always very curious about sexuality when I was growing up. I used to tie up my first serious boyfriend with pantyhose and put pink fluffy hair clips on his nipples. At 18 I started an apprenticeship at a dungeon and I have never looked back.
What's the best bit about being an escort?
I really love working for myself. The freedom and flexibility it brings is fabulous.
What don't you like about being an escort?
Broadly speaking, I think the adult industry is viewed with stigma by the general population. There are a lot of misconceptions about what the adult industry is really like, and I always welcome the opportunity to talk to people about it.
How often do you work per week?
It really does vary, though I consider myself very lucky and I get to meet a lot of interesting people.
What are your turn-offs?
Vulgarity, bad hygiene.